I was talking to his really awesome guy. He's a regular at the place I work and we got along pretty well. We have a lot in common and it was super nice to talk to him. I got out of a long term relationship 5 months ago and was SO awkward sometimes. I think I came on a little strong and I scared him off a little, I'm super sad because we aren't really talking now. Is there anyway I can fix it? I was like stuck in relationship mode and looking back now I probably came off clingy. I feel really bad about it but I think it's too late now and that's hut how he's going to think of me even though I see what I did wrong and wouldn't be that way now. Is the damage already done? Is it too late for him to see that I'm actually super chill and not I credibly awkward? Or do I have a chance to fix it? Please help!
Guys, can I fix this?
What Guys Said 6
Best advice I can give would be to forget about all that. Next time you see him just be kinda nonchalant/matter-of-fact about things like you would a friend. We've all had those awkward moments and from my experience, whether it was me or the other person that made it that way, it was soon forgotten after I or they showed it was just a fluke. Hope that helps :)1
If he's still talking to you then it probably isn't a problem, just don't be awkward and clingy moving forward0
I think you need to take it slowly and try to chat again when he comes in.
and tbh I think your text you were gonna send (that you told guyintac) is a bit over the top!0
He is either already with someone or maybe he didn't see you the same as you did... he could be gay... it wouldn't hurt to maybe make anothet attempt, but be more passive0
It may not have anything to do with you. If you're gutsy, you could ask "hey, for a while there it seemed liked we were talking and getting along well. Did something happen? Did I say something wrong? Is everything okay? If there is any future relationship than this would be a healthy way to kick start it, being open and direct.1
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