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If you've already been on a couple of dates, haven't you already been asked out? If you mean that you want to be together, then the length of time it will take will depend on the guy and girl. Some guys are slower and making decisions like that because they want to be careful so that no one gets hurt. Some girls are hard to read so it takes time to figure out if they're really someone that you could see yourself with. This could range from three weeks to three years (and not exclusively to that range). That's just an example of how large the number of different time frames could be.