Yes - its nice to think someone finds you attractive and wants to get to know you better
cool, i asked this girl out who seemed really interested in me on a dating site as she replied in paragraph's and said speak soon. She accepted me on Facebook and i asked her out but have yet received a response she has seen it though. I'm confused if she didn't like me why be so chatty on a dating site, why not say no or delete me any thought's on this could she be shy?
I can only think that maybe she is a bit scared to meet you in person... I find online dating weirs like that, you can share thoughts but you can't pick up body language and feel comfortable with the guy... what kind of date did you ask her out on? How long have you been in contact with her?
I spoke to her for an hour two weeks ago as she hadn't been online since, i asked her out to a deer park and a meal
Ok so that is cool that you have at least spoken on the phone. Can you maybe call her again and jsut say - not sure if you got my message about going out but would you like too meet up?Deer park and meal sounds good - I can't think why that would put her off.So either she is anxious about meeting face to face or maybe she likes you but isn't single or has something else going on?
okay thanks and i meant on the dating site we ain't spoke on the phone as i don't have her number! she was nervous about a job interview which could mean she is quite a nervous person meeting strangers
A lot of people get nervous about job interview... but my guess would be she is nervous about meeting you in person. I went on a dating site and a lot of guys would write some I exchanged a couple of messages with - but then I had a think about how if any of them had turned out to peak my interest then how would I feel about meeting up with them and it kind of had me a bit scared - I could only go by what they had written and not by the vibe I got when interacting with them - I didn't realise how much I rely on reading body language when getting to know/trust/like a guy. Maybe she is going through the same. If that is the case you probably have to expect it to be like a blind date except that instead ofafriend telling her all about you, youhave done the with messages. So maybe you could try suggesting something really low key initially - like a half hour at a coffee shop just so you can meet and see if there is any chemistry there.
Maybe you could suggest to her that she could bring a friend if she feels more comfortable doing that.
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No. It's just a date. No big deal...
Of course. Who wouldn't!
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