I am a white guy with blonde hair and blue eyes, and Latinas at work always say that blonde guys are feminine, ugly and not manly enough. And for some f*cked up reason they always say it when I am around, so I can hear them saying it! What the hell?
Sorry, but that is racist. It's also evil bullying. I didn't tell my boss about it, yet, though.
And the worst thing is, I like this one hispanic co-worker. I will never ask her out, or even really talk to her beyond what is necessary, because I have to assume she thinks like that, too (I never heard her personally saying something against blonde guys though).
So, why are Latinas, hispanic and brown girls so racist against us blonde guys? We never did nothing to them!
Most Helpful Girl
Don't generalize, not all hispanic girls are that way. infact, most of the guys I find attractive are usually white. It sucks that your Co-workers are assholes, they're probably racist because maybe in the past they've faced discrimination against white people. Or they didn't grow up with equal opportunities as white people.
Most Helpful Guy
I have never heard of that, and it's never happened to me.
As much as it may seem at certain times, the people around you aren't indicative of the whole. Hell, the girls may even like you and be trying to get your attention. People do things like that.