I just find his behaviour confusing and was hoping someone could shed some light on what he might be thinking. I figure I should just ignore him at this point because I don't want a pen pal. It's been two weeks of him messaging me with no further invitation for a second date.
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So many reasons for this one.
-He hasn't got the time
-He is dating somebody else
-He thought the date didn't go that well.
-He doesn't want to look needy/clingy
Drop a subtle hint, that you enjoyed the first date a lot or something.