I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and found out a few months back he was smoking. I have a problem with that and asked him to stop. And he promised me he would. His parents found out and grounded him. It's been over four months and whenever he gets his privileges back he does something stupid and I can't talk to him. I haven't seen him in over a month. Last week he called me and and he promised me he'd stop and wouldn't do anything stupid. And when I asked for him to come over, thinking he could go somewhere with me his mother told me he was found smoking and lost his privileges again.
His mother is hard to believe and I hear two different stories from my boyfriend and his mother. I don't know who to believe not know what to do.
I don't know if he loves me when he keeps breaking promises. This has been going on for seven months.
Also we are sexually active and I feel like he wants to me with me because we have sex.
- Does he love me?Vote A
- Does he not love me?Vote B
- Is he using me?Vote C