Every girl I asked out in high school has said no to me. In 10th grade I acted like love wasn't real to help myself get over these rejections. Its kinda dumb & impossible to do that but I still gave up for life. I get really stressed out when I see a two people who are dating, or a married couple not just bc I'm hella jealous but bc theyre all assholes they think they're better than everyone else (not every single couple but you know what I mean. My thoughts is that if I get rejected by 10 girls in the past why would anyone want to date me in the future. What do y'all think?
I'm tired of hearing No from every single girl its like a curse from God
I figure if I give up (I gave up back at 15 in 10th grade) girls won't say no to me and I don't have to put up with being rejected
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Congratulations, you got rejected along with pretty much every other guy in 9th grade around the world. LOL! Some guys even have a higher number than that! But I can't knock a guy for trying. You're trying to impress the elusive Grade 9 girl (or now, Grade 10 girl) which is no easy feat. This is the age that girls are usually virgins and very afraid to lose it or afraid to lose it to the wrong guy. They also care very much about appearances, and without getting a lot of experience on what matters, they choose superficial things to base whether or not you're datable right now. For example a woman in her 20s will want to date a doctor, but that doctor had to be a science whiz in highschool - something some highschool girls wanted nothing to do with then. They also wanted to date the bad boy in highschool, but guess what? -- in their 40s after the guy has been in jail a few times and won't stop his drug habit or get help for his drinking problem, the thrill of the bad boy is gone.
Just because ten girls rejected you just means you're learning what to do and not to do. Every little thing is one more experience you'll have that other guys won't know about because you kept trying. It's like going for job interviews and never getting a job. Are you just going to never try getting a job? No. You learn about interview techniques and what you can say and do that might work for the next time.
And seriously - it's highschool. If nothing works out in this year or the next two, you are still just there to get the bases down of your social experiences. Do you know how many guys actually never get laid in highschool? TONS. Most just lie about it and say they did just to get their friends off their backs. :)
To say you give up for life in Grade 10 is depressing. One day you're going to find girls change as they age and begin to quit being so choosy and will want to go out with you because they understand better values that guys offer rather than what they saw on MTV. Just do what makes you happy and if you see a girl you like and want to talk to her, go for it. If it doesn't work, oh well, there will be someone else later on who might catch you off guard because you won't even see it coming. :)0
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