Its just so hard to find love where can I man like me start
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I think one of the most valuable qualities I find in any guy, whether I end up falling for them or not, is how they talk to me. As I'm not incredibly girly, a lot of guys end up shutting off their filter around me and it's incredibly offputting. But, when a guy talks to me with respect and texts with proper grammar, it puts them up several notches in my book. Also, if they text literately- I have a system of counting how many times I see shortened words, deliberate misspellings of words, additional z's, and any casually used racial slur and think that that's how many less times I'll talk to that person than I would.
Another thing is hobbies- I tend to fall for guys that have similar interests to me. For example, I'm a musician (cello, percussion and guitar) and a singer, so I find myself falling more for guys who are in one of those realms, though usually they have outside hobbies too- One was a programmer, for example. One was a baseball player. I've liked several guys who skateboard. Skateboarders, for the record, are DAMN SEXY.
And the last thing that really makes me fall for a guy is chemistry. If I'm in a crowded room, I usually can have several pointless conversations with several guys that, while they could be great guys, I just don't click with. And then there could be THAT guy- and if there is I'm really excited- That I just don't want to stop talking with and feel something with. It doesn't have to be a significant topic like politics or social classes or anything- Even just talking about hobbies and having a light conversation can do it for me. If I go home thinking about a conversation with a guy that should've held no real weight, I know I'm in for an adventure.
Anyways, sorry for the novel, but I hope this helped!