The problem is that she said she wants to keep her social profile and private profile separate; so she refuses to accept my relationship status request on Facebook and everytime I post a comment, usually after another man posts a comment like she is so beautiful and the love of their life, she deletes my comment, but responds to them. This has gone on for several months and irritates me and has led to many arguments; my view is either delete every comment or keep mine. I am sure she is not cheating on me and think that she loves the attention, but I finally told her that either she needs to accept me in all parts of her life, or we need to end the relationship. Was this the right thing to do?
Most Helpful Girl
I honestly think she likes the attention. She fears that if she makes it public that she's taken she'll get less male attention and her popularity will go down. However I think at a point she has to realize that other male attention shouldn't matter to her. She should be proud and happy of your relationship. I think you did the right thing :)1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
I'm sorry man. Sounds to me like she is straight using you for your generosity. PERIOD. She is simply stringing you along and keeping herself out there until she can find someone better than you.. Stop and think logically. It is painfully obvious that she doesn't think nearly as highly of you as you do of her. There are many reasons for keeping a social and private profile separate. I understand this. However, what would the purpose be of wanting to basically keep you a secret?
My advise would be to accept this for what it is. You are her sugardaddy. If you enjoy her company and intimacy and want to keep her around for that then by all means get your's!!! However, If you are hoping that somehow you can put an ultimatum on this woman so she becomes exclusively your's than you are setting yourself up for a broken heart.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE