You see, my best friend recently confessed thag he is afraid to have feelings for me so what are some reasons you guys would be afraid of having feelings for a woman who is your best friend but you also already have sex with? Just curious.. i don't quite understand myself especially why he would boice that?
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He thinks that his life is more or less stable as it is. Like a funambulist who is still flailing his arms to regain balance. He is scared you might be the little push that will make him lose his balance. He likes you more than what he deems "healthy" for the balance he is trying to have in his life. It can mean two things.
1- He might be willing to lose balance for you and try to fix his life afterwards (might mean losing his current boyfriend)
2- He might have to jettison you from his life to regain his balance.
When he told you this, that was his way of "putting you in a box" officially in his mind. He decided right then that he couldn't go further with you at least at that moment. I think he might be malleable though since he had to tell himself out loud to convince himself...
At least, that's how I see it. Does it makes sense?0
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