Most Helpful Girl
Yes we are very emotional beings. So to be driven by emotion is far different than being driven by carnal desires. Anyone can fuck.. that doesn't make a person special. What makes them special is the thoughts and desires that are out into the act.
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Most Helpful Guy
hmmhmmhmm, alright, well, things are always far more complicated than they seem on the surface. I can understand why you would feel that way, dating is shit for men, especially for the guy who hasn't got his shit together (which is probably 90% of men), but I think we need to be honest with ourselves about the real reasons, if we want to move forward. You say every woman you've been with has been manipulative? So you've been hurt... is what I would read into that. By whom, what were the circumstances? If you've been hurt before, presumably, you would fear being hurt again, correct? Logical, right? How were the relationships early on in life, particularly with your mother?
You say you use women, which will imply that you use manipulative or deceptive means in order to ensnare them, ie you don't tell them outright that you have no real emotional interest in them? So you mislead them, and ultimately hurt them? And perpetuate this vicious cycle? And if you can treat women badly, and in your mind it is justifiable, then perhaps you may have more of an insight, even a forgiveness, into the real reasons why they have treat you badly.
Lastly, how do these relationships make you feel in yourself? Presumably, you ask this question, because you're getting bored or unsure of the status quo. The right relationship, where the two of you truly connect, is the most thrilling, overwhelming experience. It requires a lot of courage and introspection to change though.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE