And I'm not talking about fat. I mean I am about 5'9 and skinny and she is like 6'0 and normal weight and curvy. Supposedly I have an aesthetic face (in the right light, if you are drunk), which is all I have going for me, physically. I am mid 20s but I look like I'm in high school (I am not joking. I get carded to buy aerosol cans). She is older than I am and she looks her age, mostly due to her height and frame, I guess. Not sure whether to pursue or if it's too ridiculous. I know some people would see that and laugh, like she could beat me up, or something. Not even most men that height could, tbh. I'm only asking because she seems to be sending signals (but then again, I could be dead wrong).
Guys or girls, have you ever been that kind of couple, and could the girl handle it? Did you handle it? GIrls, if you were in that situation would you even consider it in the first place?
Most Helpful Girl
Don't base your relationship off of what others think.
If you care about this young lady then be with her.
You're getting to a age where physical aspects (indeed which is a bonus) should be the least of your concern.
Although it's great to have a partner that looks well on your arm, that doesn't make a relationship last.
If you have a lot in common with this girl and enjoy her company, it shouldn't matter if she looks older than you and is physically bigger.
Would you rather a small, petite girl who everyone thought suited you well but you both had nothing in common?
It's best to choose wisely.0
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Most Helpful Guy
Im gonna level with ya dude, I bet, 99% of the girls on this question are gonna tell you things like ''looks dont matter'' and how ''its silly to think you can't because you're shorter''
But lets not forget, These are the same girls who vote polls on here saying how they would only date a guy taller then them (Ive seen polls on this site where like 95%+ girls said they wouldn't date a shorter guy).
So I don't know dude if im honest, But, I will wish you luck with it, And tbh, 5''9' ain't short anyway. Its only a 3 inch different, So i can't see it being THAT big of a deal to her.0