We met on an online dating site. Her profile said she wasn't looking for anything serious. She also mentioned it to me and I said that's ok let's just get to know eachother and she was ok with that. We started talking online and gradually our messages became more and more frequent u til I asked her out in which she replied, "that would be nice :)" then I got her number. She was headed out of town with friends but we still managed to text all then time and our number of messages gradually increased. She even asked me if we were still up for our date. On our date we went for ice cream and a walk around the park. We conversed, made eye contact and everything was great!! The date was going well and I had butterflies and I was like finally I met a girl for me. Anyways I ended the date by hugging her and then we kissed. She stared at me while I hugged her so I knew she wanted to kiss. 20 minutes after the date she texted me thanking me for the evening. We made plans to shoot pool. One day she ignored me and me being the worry wart I texted her saying I like her and I hope we are still good and I look forward to seeing her. Then she replied the next day reminding me she doesn't want anything serious and she doesn't want to give me false intentions. I said that's ok I enjoy her friendship and I'm not ready for anything serious either. She said she's ok with friends. She couldn't make our date as she had family emergency which she really did but now she's non committal to our second date. She's letting me know this week as this month is too busy to make solid plans. She also mentioned that she doesn't see the need to text everyday. I agree I'm just bored at home and thought the flow was going well and that's why we texted. I probably came off as clingy but I'm off work with an injury so my time is spent doing nothing so I have more time to text. But I'm back at work now. I metioned that to her and she said that's great that our going back to work.
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I think you might have scared her. I don't think she's necessarily not interested AT ALL. I personally don't like/see the need to text daily even with close friends or guys I like a lot. I think she might be feeling pressured by your texts. At any rate she seems to be signalling that she would like to cut down contact, so maybe do that.1