I enjoy talking to guys until they give a sign or tell me that they like me and then I can't get away quick enough. I prefer talking to guys who brush me off a bit or are a little insulting sometimes. Can someone explain why because I annoy myself when I ruin a chance with nice guys?
Most Helpful Guy
A lot of people's interests change over time. Whether it's food, style, dating, etc; your interests today will probably be different, in some way, a few years from now.
Perhaps it's your brain's way of convincing you not to settle down yet. To live your live not worrying about others impression of you. Not that I'm saying you're selfish or anything like that. You're afraid "nice guys" will want to move too quickly in a deeper emotional attachment. So you're more drawn toward guys that seem to care less.
This isn't necessarily a bad thing. I don't think it's anything you really need to worry about right now. Unless it's hurting you or others in an addiction like way or a physical like way, then I don't really see a reason for you to be annoyed with yourself.
I'm kind of the same with all people. After my explanation you will probably find it won't be the same, but perhaps you will gain some insight.
I don't really like being insulted or anything like that, but I don't usually like being complimented or anyone to show interest in me.
It doesn't necessarily have to do with sexual attraction, though I'm sure it has some to do with it. It's mostly just people themselves. I don't hang out, date, or have friends; so in a sense, I ruined basically all forms of relationships because I don't like the feeling of people liking me.
Unless you can go into more detail, that's about the best answer I can think of. Hope it helps, sorry if it didn't.0
Most Helpful Girl
You just find some guys "too easy"
not a good thing, but i feel that sometimes too0