So my long distance boyfriend who i have been dating for a year told me yesterday that he hates the whole distance thing and doesn't think its worth it so i texted him this: Oh my sweet Shadow, how much i love you. I keep replaying what you told me yesterday in my head and can't help but cry. I am terrified extremly. I don't want to lose you baby you are my world and I understand that it is like a knife to the heart with the distance. I know that but i just don't want you feel liked your trapped in our relationship, Your young and i don't want you to feel left out. I just want you to be happy after all thats what love is right? He just replied with "i love you" should i just leave him alone and not respond today?
Should I reply?
What Guys Said 2
sorry but to me his "i love u" means "i ignore u"
i say this coz u wrote all this text, which was really sweet in my opinion... and he responded wid such a short message... anyway he was clear at least when he said he hates LDR0
The truth is, he probably does love you and meant it when he sent that message to you. But what I would also take from a simple "I love you" is "I'm exhausted and hurting." Being in a long distance relationship is agonizing when you can't be with the one you love. Clearly you are in pain, but so is he. The only way to survive a long distance relationship is if both people are resolved to the end. Most don't last but the one's that do share a connection that lasts a lifetime, even if they don't get married. Just tell him, simply, that you still care about him and if he ever wants to talk, that you'll be available for him. Sorry I can't add more.0
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