I've been following around this girl in my class. I don't think she notices me. Im following her around to make sure she is safe. But it turns out she has a boyfriend now. That isn't fair. She should be with me. Should I tell him that I saw her first or should I just show her who is superior.
- handle it the old fashion wayVote A
- be reasonable and work it out with sharing herVote B
- just give it time it isn't meant to be. she will be with you one dayVote C
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think any of your options are suitable, be mature about it- she's with him for a reason, and if they're not meant to be then it'll sort itself out, however you can just say because you saw her first you deserve to be with her. After all isn't it about who she wants to be with? If she wants to be with you, and she realize she may have made a mistake then she will, however just let it be and try to focus on yourself and eventually the feelings with subside.1
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Most Helpful Guy
I work in psych and if everything you've been saying is real, and not just to get a reaction from others, I would say you have a few issues I'd like to address. First is that you clearly have Grandiose delusions. It means you have a misconception of not only yourself but how others view you. You look in the mirror but you don't see a normal guy, you see a movie star. A God among men and women.
The second issue is an unhealthy obsession with this girl, stemming from your own inadequacies of Grandiose. Someone who loves someone doesn't need to obtain them, nor prove themselves to them. But obsession, the lust of our carnal nature, warps our perceptions of how we view other people. You believe that by inflicting pain on this boy that the girl of your dreams is with, will change her mind about you. Believe it or not, this isn't too far from the thoughts of a sociopath in regards to your thought pattern. Now, I don't believe you are crazy (if any of this is even true).
Try to remember, I'm not attacking you, simply pointing out what I'm observing. See, to other people, you might look crazy, but the truth is you are smart and cleaver. That's true. I can read it in your writing. See, the truth is, you don't really care about what any of us write. But I am curious if you really believe anything you've written0