We had a long weekend at the beach last weekend during which he suggested seeing each other next month and even a beach week with our families next summer. I was unresponsive because I was upset over an incident, namely a picture of him with another woman on his iPhone screensaver which was inadvertently revealed when he was showing me something on his phone. I asked who she is and he said his girlfriend in a joking manner. I asked what he was doing with me! He then changed his story.
When we departed he thanked me for joining him at the beach and I was again unresponsive. That was Sunday and I've heard nothing from him since. I want to just forget about him, but after 3 years I need closure. I feel hurt and humiliated and worry that attempting to get closure will either make it worse, or continue an unhealthy situation. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
I doubt you'll get closure so just move on and find another guy preferably close to you so you don't have the long distance issues0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes you don't get closure, you just move on. Don't settle on this guy, or hang onto him just because you don't want to feel at a loss. You can't lose what wasn't yours, and you can't stretch a tent into a mansion no matter how hard you try. Don't hang on to this guy any more if you're effort or feelings aren't being reciprocated. Let it go.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE