We're both virgins and we've been together for around a month now. We care about each other a lot, we spend all of our time together and we're each other's best friends as well as boyfriend/girlfriend. We've spoken about the whole sex thing, because I was the one that brought it up and he's never pressured me into doing anything I don't want to do, even when we're at home he doesn't try anything because he knows I'm not ready yet and I mentioned that I wanted to wait and he said he wanted to as well so that it could be special and he didn't want us rushing into it too fast and for it to result as me being turned off him. I know that he isn't just using me for sex and that he genuinely cares about me, plus I do feel ready to have sex with him, but the only thing stopping me is the paranoia that everything is just bound to go downhill from there on. Is there the risk that he could lose interest and respect for me afterwards?
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I had the same worries when I was considering sex with my boyfriend at the beginning of our relationship. I was very young, we were both freshmen in highschool. I ended up going through with it about 6 months into our relationship. It wasn't an amazing experience because it was a little bit painful, however it wasn't awkward at all and he was very nice and supportive. We are now seniors and enjoy sex way more 😂😊. Anyways, moral of the story, if you care about each other as much as you say you do, it shouldn't be an issue. Sex brings two people who are in love closer. Take it from someone who has experienced it first hand 😊1