I'm a geeky girl who loves video games, comics, and anime. I love writing stories and drawing comics. I'm friendly and outgoing and talkative. I have a pretty good sense of humor.
Problem is... I have no sex appeal. I look like a geek. I don't wear makeup, I wear clothes that aren't really sexy or trendy and I don't particularly like wearing heels. I don't know its just not me.
I'm chubby and I have a little blemishes here and there.
I don't know, I'm happy with who I am, but I really want to be a girl that can attract guys. I don't know, I feel happy with who I am but... not satisfied. I'm an otaku. A geek. A chubster. Guys like me as a friend a sister but they don't see me as anymore. And if one does have an interest in me they end up seeing how hot my friends are and lose interest in me and go after them... its happened so many times and I'm so sick of it.
Can you guys give me tips on how to have sex appeal and appear less geeky?
Most Helpful Guy
Don't lose your geekiness first of all. I would love to meet a geeky woman who is into Video Games and Comic books. I also love woman who don't look like the supermodels in magazines. I call it the girl next door look. I appreciate women who don't wear makeup or at least keeps it minimal. You don't always have to wear sexy clothes but maybe something that you like that can be a little flattering. Not for the guys but so you feel better about yourself first.
It's understandably frustrating that people don't find you "girlfriend material" YET. But just make a few adjustments here and there. Nothing extreme. Feel good about yourself and the boys might start coming around a bit more. And especially important, don't bring potential daters around your friends for a bit. Let the guy get to know you and be a little committed to you before you introduce the friends.
Make sure you be you first of all and take little steps to look better and feel better about yourself and the rest will fall into place.
I am here to help you out if you have more questions.1
Most Helpful Girl
You need to improve your looks. Take care of yourself and get into your feminine side
Get your nails and toes done
Go to a salon and get a cute hairstyle
Go shopping and buy pretty clothes you feel good
Buy good smelling lotions and perfumes
Wear makeup and take care of your skin
Stop saying being sexy is not you. Yes it is you just haven't brought it out yet. It's not you to look mediocre when you can look your best0