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I think she wants to keep the connection without the commitment. If I were you I'd just be honest and tell her what you put in your post.
However it seems she likes your company, she likes alone time with you, she like the closeness/intimacy of being out with just one person but she doesn't want strings attached and she wants it labeled as "just friends" until she is ready.
If what she says is true, about the whole ex thing, there's a possibility she has feelings for you, but she's not ready yet. She may want you to wait or be there when she's ready.
Just an assumption though.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE