So i went on two dates with this guy. he is orginally from poland, but have lived in my home town for some years, and he only speaks English and polish (which made it more difficult for us to communicate), he worke as a mechanic and likes motocycles, going to the gym, and traveling. All over look if i was going to base him on a 1-10 scale, he would land on a 5 i think.
Now to the less shallow things. He was nice, maybe a bit shy or insecure, or maybe he was just nervous, and even though i didn't know him that well i got the impression he was a genuine nice guy.. and he seemed very cultivated.. and could see it on his face that he found me very attractive (maybe explains his nerviousness).
What happend on the date was that we went to a bar and had some beers and on that date i was really attracted to him and i felt like it went great, and the end of the dated i kissed him. BUT on the second date we ate pizza and watched films at his place, but when he was picking me up he was less attractive then i remembered.. and i wasn't really feeling him in that sense... So when he went for a kiss i said no, because i didn't feel that physical attraction towards him anymore.
Looks isn't everything and i dont think i gave him a fair chance... A part of me feel like i should have tried more.. i have a tendecny to belive that if there isn't chemsitry straight away or if its not easy its not going to work.
Do you think i made a mistake or that i did the right thing (i didn't take contact with him after the date, neither did him understably)