- I'd be fine with itVote A
- Couldn't put up with itVote B
Girls, would a guy wanting to wait until marriage for sex be a dealbreaker?
What Girls Said 23
I couldn't put up with it because I don't want to waste time and effort with someone only to find out we aren't sexually compatible. I've been in situations where everything lined up perfectly but the sex was just terrible and could never be fixed. Id rather find out if we work in bed early on (like the first date) before I invest any feelings in you and run the risk of being hurt.2
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I'd be totally cool with it since I'm waiting for either A. a serious relationship or B. marriage before I have sex too. So it wouldn't bother me at all..1
If there were more of you, I feel like many girls wouldn't feel so objectified all the time. :/
Of course we're on with that! Its just that if you meet a girl who has sex all the time, they won't. But most other women (young women and inexperienced) would be fine with it1
You are like me I don't wanna have sex with someone either till I'm married. or. I know he's the one just think if someone's really loves you they will do whatever it. takes that should bother anyone because. relationships are not jusy about sex2
Sexual compatibility is a thing. If we're not sexually compatible, the relationship won't work. I wouldn't wait until marriage.
Cheers to you if that's what you want.0
Interestingly enough when I was younger I thought the same way, but as I've gotten older I think waiting until marriage is kind of a bad idea. I would want to wait at least a year regardless, but I don't think that everyone is compatible in the bedroom so I'd want to see what our sex life would be like BEFORE I tied the knot. If you wait until you're married (which is in general several years into dating) and then find your wants/expectations clash, it may put a big strain on the relationship.
But if I REALLY liked the guy and he wanted to wait until marriage I would be okay with it :) Communication is key anyway! hahaha0
I have the same sentiments as you do towards sex so it wouldn't even be a problem.2
It shows you have values and you'd be a quality mate.2
I would respect that, but I don't expect such a man would put up with me, since I've had sex before.1
No. Not to me. I've heard some guys that are like that and I think it's good for them.0
No as long as he can accept that I slept with one other person before him0
Mabye occasionally to keep your fair maiden satisfied0
There should be more guys like you out there lol2
Thats something i would like...1
It would be for me.0
Its actually ideal to me but im also a christian0
what MHO said basically lol0
I don't know. I'm a girl who wants to wait but if a guy said he wanted to wait I'd probably think he was effeminate or something. Hypocritically enough, I guess I'd like a guy who wants sex now but accepts that I want to wait.0
I actually find that really attractive when a guy thinks that way. It means that he is more interested in the girls personality and beliefs that her body. I would be totally fine with it.1
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