The question is "How to not fall for someone?"
I'm one of those girls thats a hopeless romantic and sometimes I'm so blind. I only see the good side in people and then I start to like them. And I fantasize about being with them (not in a sexual way) and holding hands and having long talks.
I quickly get feelings for the boys I meet and I don't want that.
I don't want to be desperate and naive.
Has anyone the same problem and can give me advise?
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Adorable. The fact is chances are your heart is going to get crushed a couple of times trying to find a hopeless romantic guy like yourself that will care for you as a person as well as being physically attracted to you. That's just a part of the dating world.
Just know that they have faults. Don't think that those faults will go away or you can change them. You need to rationally look at their faults and see if they're things you can live with. The mistake so MANY girls make is they think they can "fix" a guy when they are way out of their element and one day realize they can't get the guy to change. You have to take a guy as is or find someone else you can learn to love. (Guys generally have the opposite problem of wanting the girl to stay the same and the girl changes).
Again you'll have heartache but just know you're not alone in that and it doesn't mean you won't find love. You'll make mistakes which is fine. You can learn from those mistakes and use your heartache to grow an even bigger heart that you'll one day share with a lucky guy.0