message you for the first time, what would you want him to say? Some girls hate when a guy just says hi. So what do I say?
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I Am on a reputable dating site, @Rahdle, that I have used for a few years now, and whenever someone new comes on to me to 'Message you for the first time,' I do not appreciate the usual: Hi, Sexy. It's a turn off and with Other Compliments that go even deeper, it is a way for me to push a button and Delete, Delete And... Delete him.
However, with a simple "Hi," which I do accept, or even "I liked your photos, they were great," to me that is Very tasteful and this will Surely Get my Attention and with That... Has gotten them brownie points and a date, even A... Mate.
Good luck. xx1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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