I'm 20 years old and in my second year of my MBBCh. So busy, busy med school blah blah. Forget all the grown up responsible stuff onward to the melodramatic breakdown. I've never had a boyfriend. [insert sobbing, wailing, ice cream - basically think Bridget Jones]
I've never been kissed. At all. Like the most action my lips have seen is the slobbery kisses from my gran on holidays.
I'm smart, geeky, knowledgeable about movies and music - and not just from the last two decades. I think I'm fairly competent in holding intelligent conversations. I'm friendly, I bathe often and clean my teeth. Like come on! Are there NO takers? I feel like I should be ticking some boxes here.
I recently shaved my hair off and donated it to make wigs for children with cancer. That's me after a bit of growth. People have been really nice and supportive but I don't think that it's attracting the guys. Not that long hair was doing so great either... but I digress :D I've heard a lot of snide remarks about appearing lesbian or butch and that guys won't approach me. Is this true?
I just don't know what I've been doing wrong and I feel like the clock is ticking for me here. I can't go on my first date when I'm like 24 with 0 experience. Guys are going to expect me to at least know how to kiss. I'm floundering people. Help me please :(
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Put yourself out there, go to parties, go to meetups for groups and meet lots of different people. Online dating is a way to go as well. Good chance you'll find someone to date your own age. Too many people just sit and wait and hope something will fall in your lap but it really doesn't work like that unless you're lucky.0