This morning I texted him "It seems that you've lost interest in me, so let's just call it off. No hard feelings. Just no sense in dragging it out if you're not interested."
He has not replied. If I was right in assuming he had lost interest, wouldn't he have texted back agreeing so it would just end it? I don't understand why he wouldn't reply to this. It would really be the easiest way to end it if that's what he was going for.
So if I still don't get a response, I was thinking of texting him (like, later tonight) something like "So are we on the same page here? If I'm misreading things I would like to continue seeing you. However it should be mutual. So I would appreciate it if you could let me know where you stand. Thanks"
Most Helpful Guy
I see both sides of this. Maybe he is really busy with work and moving. However, if he was interested he should have at least held a somewhat decent conversion during the week.
I do think you might have jumped the gun too quickly on this given his current situation. I wouldn't wait all day for a response from him, because there is a good chance you won't get one.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Im dealing at this very moment with a similar scenario with a guy who is 42 years old and im 44. In ur case you I assume were dating offen in mu case it was just a guy I met 5 mos ago during a family trip, he knows my family and we went out on a first date it was good date, we had things in common, we even talked to set up things for a second date, he teased me during texts I tease him back. I guess for him those teases meant I wanted a serious relationship and he was not looking for that but I was not looking for taht eitehr and he knew it. We were just getting to know each other. But for some reason after he took an European trip just this month, and he still traveling he stopped texting me. I mean we were not even a couple just getting to know each other I never knew about the trip cause he never told me at all. Our texts were always normal nothing that I foreseen he was not interest cause he never acted like he was not interested. SInce I did not know he was on the trip and I did not text him for quite a while, so I did not sound taht clingy or desesperate I text him just a week ago I text him a normal thing, he never answered. yesterday I texted him that how cool he was in Europe and he has to tell me how it went when he returns and I even ask him when he will return. Tell me were those questions that sounded I need a serious relationship? I ask those questions as a friend, so today he responded me today anbd told me half in English half in Spanish. Whatever we have or it was is not going to work. Im sorry, (In Spanish he wrote. Espero que estes bien, which in English means I hope you are fine0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE