We didn't talk for that whole 3 months. Then this past Sunday I get a text from him asking me how I was. We were just having a general conversation and then all of a sudden he says that he misses me. I told him that I missed him as well. He then asked if he could see me that night. I really wanted to see him so I texted back and told him to come over. Yeah, we had sex.
The sex was different this time though. One of my complaints before was that he never cared if I had fun during the sex, all he cared about was himself. That he would just "fuck me and leave" (my words). This time he told me to sit down and "talk to me" (his words). We just started talking about stuff that was going on with him and then he kissed me. During the sex he kept saying that he was going to try and spend more time with me and that I was "so good to him". After we sat and talked and watched a movie until we fell asleep. He rarely spent the night with me so this was a shocker.
In our first relationship, we had a problem about him being too "busy" that he couldn't text me or see me often. I was usually the one that texted him the most. I know it's only Thursday but I've had to text him the most again. I know that in the grand scheme of things, texting is not that big of a deal but I feel like this is a red flag and I don't want to go through the same feelings I went through the last time with him. I texted him yesterday to invite him to come over to talk about things and he said he couldn't because there was "too much to do" because he was flying to see his family this weekend and driving some car back. That's the first time I've heard about that.
Yes. I know things are very early but if I can cut bullshit in advance then I
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His only goal was to have sex with you.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE