Call me stupid but could my girlfriend like this dude or am i just jealous? In the movies this is how cheating starts let's be real honest
Most Helpful Girl
I can never know in specific cases but yeah I would be uncomfortable if my boyfriend talked to others girls like that.
Don't let it build up though. Just ask her :) it could be nothing and you're risking the relationship by letting resentment grow :)0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
You can't control anyone, but there should be a definite level of understanding in a relationship. If she is feeling something, it's her responsibility to talk to you about it so you guys can work it out. It's the same with you. Talk to her and tell her that you don't feel comfortable with her messaging this guy to the point of it looking like flirting. When I was dating I had to cut ties to a few female friends because I knew it was making my girlfriend upset. I respected her and needed to place her first. Your girlfriend needs to do the same, and put you first in this case. If not, then you need to address what is acceptable in your relationship. I hope she can level with you and be understanding to your feelings. If not, I recommend finding someone who won't treat you this way. It's possible she doesn't even realize she's doing it. So talk to her, calmly and collectedly, and address your concerns.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE