Are women allowed to do so as well? If women do have standards for the people they date, how are they perceived?
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Everyone can have whatever standards they want as long as they don't complain if they have trouble finding someone who meets those standards or if the people who meet their standards dont want to date them.
Personally I think it's hard to say definitively which gender has higher standards since what we want is often different and varies depending on what type of arangment we are looking for.
Weight=girls are judged more
Height=guys are judged more
For casual sex girls definitely have higher standards, both physically and personality.
Actually I'd even say girls are pickier about looks when hooking up and more forgiving on looks when looking for a relationship. Also there's more pressure on the guy to be fun/charming /entertaining, meanwhile guys only care that the girl is down to fuck.
Guys are usually the reverse, they are often willing to lower their physical standards as long as the sex is easy to get with no strings attached. However if he's going to commit to the girl, he's going to be more selective about her appearance.
So it's harder to meet a girls standards for casual sex than it is to meet a guys standards for casual sex. But it's harder to meet a guys standards for a relationship than it is to meet a girls standards for a relationship.
For marraige girls are more judgmentental about a guys salary. Girls generally prefer a guy with the same income or a little higher. While guys don't tend to care as much.
For marriage Guys are more judgmentental about a girls number of sexual partners. Generally he'll prefer a girl with the same number of partners or less. While girls don't tend to care as much.
I think guys are less willing to compromise when looking for a relationship. Especially when it comes to marriage.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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