So, would you? Personally I don't think I would. It would ruin my chances of having kids and I just... I don't know I would want a real man. Not a man that used to be a women. But that's just me personally. So what about you?
- MaybeVote A
- NeverVote B
- DefinitelyVote C
Most Helpful Guy
My mind is obsessive, I wouldn't be able to get it out of my head that they used to have a dick and that when I'm having sex with them I'm actually sticking my penis into what used to be there penis but has now been inverted into a fake vagina.
It just kills my attraction to them3
Most Helpful Girl
It depends. I would like to be told early on in the relationship that the person I'm dating is transgender. If they kept it a secret from me for so long, then I would definitely be edging towards dumping them. It wouldn't be because of them being transgender, but the fact that they lied to me for so long. It's not fair to keep that big of a secret from the person you are being intimate with.
I also want children in the future (maybe, sorta, but probably do) and I would want the child to be mine and the person I'm with so it would be hard to decide if I was willing to give that up. Yes, I know that love trumps all, but sometimes it doesn't. Everyone has a dream that they grew up with and not everyone is able to let that dream go no matter how much they love the person. It doesn't make them a bad person, though.
It's a hard choice to make, but I'm still on the fence about it. It really depends on the level of connection I have with the person and just how much I love them.2