- MaybeVote A
- NeverVote B
- DefinitelyVote C
Most Helpful Guy
I'm going to be honest: I don't think I really would.
On a physical level, that would mess with my attraction to them. I wouldn't be able to help it. I'm just not into that.
On an emotional level, I may be upset that they waited until now to tell me such an important thing. It is a big secret to keep.
So no, my answer is B. Never.4THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
It depends. I would like to be told early on in the relationship that the person I'm dating is transgender. If they kept it a secret from me for so long, then I would definitely be edging towards dumping them. It wouldn't be because of them being transgender, but the fact that they lied to me for so long. It's not fair to keep that big of a secret from the person you are being intimate with.
I also want children in the future (maybe, sorta, but probably do) and I would want the child to be mine and the person I'm with so it would be hard to decide if I was willing to give that up. Yes, I know that love trumps all, but sometimes it doesn't. Everyone has a dream that they grew up with and not everyone is able to let that dream go no matter how much they love the person. It doesn't make them a bad person, though.
It's a hard choice to make, but I'm still on the fence about it. It really depends on the level of connection I have with the person and just how much I love them.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE