I get this thing where I met a girl she hits on me and I end up giving her my number. We talk and things ALWAYS escalate to sex extremely fast. I got friends who complain all the time that girls take time to get sexual but with me its like BAM instantly and that's fine and dandy when you wanna have fun. But I'm really not a hooking up type of guy yet all these girls never seem to want to be with me just bang and have fun. This really baffles me why does this happen? I though girls where more of a "I want to commit " type yet EVERY damn time A girl takes interest in me we end up havign sex on the first date we keep at this pace for a month and some change and then it just fizzles out. Whats so unappealing of me?
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe they're just so used to having guys who practically expect sex on the first date? If they make a move on you just tell them that you're flattered but not wanting a hookup situation. It's the same rules for you that girls are always told: if they don't respect that leave them in the dust. You don't want to be with that person in the long run anyways0
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Most Helpful Guy
I usually say this to girls, but it's still the same for guys. That if you are having sex too soon, it will convince the other person that all you're interested in is having sex. Because your goal shouldn't be sex, your goal should be a relationship with someone who actually cares about you. Girls also want to have sex (thank goodness) so it isn't that strange that they do the same thing guys do. How many girls sleep with guys and wonder why he did the same thing they do to you? Just pump the breaks on the sex at the beginning and find out if she's the type of girl who really is interested in you.0