also both guys are equally attractive for the sake of the argument
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Seems that dating would be w/25yo
but what I read is really happening is she is NOT dating but instead joining a group she finds attractive & social to kill time.
Thus she is not into dating either one at this time, regardless of appearances.
To her: Being subtle, helpful, complementary, no negatives toward her group will eventually win the war for you.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE