For the record, you knew the 18 year old guy 3 months before the 25 year old. You formed a social group with the 18 year old guy, 4 of his friends and 2 other girls since you all were in the same class. Is it mainly due to comfort with the 18 year old? I can't really understand this since the girl also went to college and graduated just like the 25 year old (that would be a huge thing to have in common). Honestly, was the 18 year old guy just lucky due to circumstance?
also both guys are equally attractive for the sake of the argument
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Seems that dating would be w/25yo
but what I read is really happening is she is NOT dating but instead joining a group she finds attractive & social to kill time.
Thus she is not into dating either one at this time, regardless of appearances.
To her: Being subtle, helpful, complementary, no negatives toward her group will eventually win the war for you.0