My previous employer had me on the road. I met this woman, working at a convenience store in a small town I passed through on a regular basis. We spoke a few times, nothing more than just casual conversation. We both ended moving on to other jobs. Both of us are single parents who have full custody of our children.
A couple of months ago, her car got broken into. I read on FB, her pleading with whoever did it to return the money. I went back and forth about offering to help her, but I did offer. After a couple of days of talking, she did accept. I have sent her money a couple more times, for necessities. No crazy amounts and she pretty much refused to take it each time, kinda had to twist her arm into it. Since then, things between us have gotten serious. She's told me she's falling in love with me more and more everyday.
She lives about 2 1/2 hours away from me so we don't get to see each other much. Mainly because her job. She works nights and they have been working her on her scheduled days off a lot. It's hard for us to make plans, especially with all the kids. We have made plans four times to see each other and have only been able to once. The times that our plans were broken, it was on her end. And she pretty much wouldn't call or text for a few hours, until it was too late for us to see each other. When we did see each other finally, she almost seemed distant or reserved. Her kids were there so that might have had something to do with it. I asked her immediately after I got home about it. She told me she was more in love with me and her and the kids had an amazing time.
Yesterday, I avoided her for about 1/2 the day to see her reaction. I got 8 text messages from her. She said she loved me and hoped I was ok. Am I being played or what?
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If me, I wouldn't get my hopes up or proceed further into this investment of love/money until I got
a) repaid for that loan
b) answers in detail for the balks/cancellations - this is simple etiquette and will forecast my future with such a person, allow me to consider if I could continue to live with such
Yes, I also fear being playing b/c many cancellations are wither kid/family/work-based or another sugar daddy has pulled her lease at last minute
Gals have the ability to juggle guys much better than vice versa0
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