My girlfriend graduated hs. Lately she's been liking her ex-classmates friend status/post/pics a lot. Example he will write "I only want a down female that won't games" and she'll like that status. Another time my girlfriend took a pic of her new car and he said it was nice. My girlfriend then replied with a "yeah we should go for a spin soon". He then talked about how he was going to get a new car as well and put a custom turbo exhaust. My girlfriend then put the "in love emoji face and wrote i can't wait till i see it dude".
They don't hang out at all or text just online talk but this is exactly how cheating starts/ you see it in the movies. Could my girlfriend like this? it's almost as if guy is too blind to see it or either they are really good
Most Helpful Girl
Get off of social media! You are about to drive yourself crazy & ruin your relationship over nothing.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
You are right in that sometimes this sort of attention can lead to cheating. However, social media is usually so far from the truth, that being interested in someone on it is almost a laughable thing. I'm not saying your situation is laughable, but I highly encourage you to not lose control over something that hasn't happened yet. It's natural that you feel uncomfortable talking to a guy like this, but that doesn't warrant a real reaction. Communication is the key in expressing yourself. Now, addressing the issue is very important. Don't make it an attack or an interrogation (remember, nothings happened) so what this conversation is a feelings check. You simply tell her that you aren't here to control her, just that it makes you feel a little strange that she would write these things to this particular guy. Her reaction and answer is key, because if she shrugs it off, then you should too. That doesn't mean ignore the entire thing, but make sure she knows you don't like her doing this, but again, you aren't trying to control her, simply telling her how you feel. Most likely it's nothing and making it into something can be really bad to your relationship. But saying nothing can also be just as damaging. Tread carefully when you address it0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE