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Guys like that have insecurity issues an feel if you talk to other people, you'll leave them for someone else. You can swear up and down on the bible that you'll be loyal, but they won't believe you. So they believe that basically holding you hostage is the best way to make sure you don't leave them.
I suggest you leave him. Guys like that try everything in their power to control everything about you, that includes finances so you literally CAN'T leave them due to costs. Leave before it gets worse an you're stuck with an asshole who hurts you.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE