I've been fuck buddies with this guy for 5 years now. We met in college and just had fun. I usually only see him every 5-6 months. He lives 2 hours away and our lives have changed dramatically since college. When I started dating someone last year he freaked out on me so I ignored him. After that relationship ended we hooked up a few months later and then recently at a festival we always goto. he then asked if we could go to an actual dinner for once and I didn't understand if he was asking me out but I said sure knowing that we live too far away for that to happen. Yesterday he told me to visit him and I told him as long as he had food for me. When I got there he made me sushi and then we played video games and wAtched a movie, had incredible sex and then he kept trying to cuddle (it's too hot, don't touch me) and he kept kissing me on the forehead. He confuses me. My friends met him at the festival and said he's crazy about me but I just figured he was drunk. His friends make comments too to me about it. If he wanted something more he would make it happen right? I'm confused at the point where I kind of want to end being friends with benefits before I jump the gun (get deep feelings) and then get crushed when he gets a girlfriend. Opinions?
Most Helpful Guy
If you can't handle friends with benefits without falling for someone, don't do it0
Most Helpful Girl
Wow, 5 years is way too long for a friends with benefits, of course he had feelings for you by now, it was bound to happen to at least one of you. If you don't see a serious future with this guy by now, you never will. Cut him loose, this has gone on for too long, both of you need to move on.2