I'm head over heels for him. There's something different about our "relationship" though. We don't just contact each other for sex. He'll invite me to lunch or invite me over and cook me dinner. When i stay over his house for the night, which is often, he always cuddles me. Like tightly and real close to me regardless if we have sex or not he will always cuddle me. Even when we greet each other he hugs me or kisses me and he will always kiss me goodbye. He's introduced me to his friend's as well.
My questions are:
• are we dating?
• how do i tell him how i feel without scaring him away?
• when we are watching TV or a movie he will point out the hot girls on there. He also speaks about past sex experiences he's had when with mutual friends. Why?
• is it OK for me to ask him if he is talking or sleeping with anyone else?
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Friends with benefits is what it is and it really isn't any of your business what he's doing with anyone else, just like it's none of his business what you are doing with anyone else. All that said though, the best thing you can do is tell him how that you are interested in being more than friends with benefits. Don't go into a lot of detail about how you are head over heels or that you thought there was something more in the relationship right now than just being friends with benefits. You've got nothing to lose. You will be miserable never knowing if there could be more and the only way to do it is to talk it over with him.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE