I'm not the type to beat up girls/screan at them etc... but i bet she only does this because i'm allowing her to step all over me. In other words she knows i won't beat her up or treat her bad which is why she does this. Should i be tougher/threaten her etc? afterall some girls like this type of men. My friends tell me all girls like a men to be a men and in her eyes i'm not being a men and this is why she acts like this. I already did the talking and it hadn't worked.
Most Helpful Girl
She's used to someone abusive. Abusive relationships involve a lot of codependency. She's probably still healing
She treats you so badly because it's a sort of revenge. She's taking her past out on you. It may not be intentional. Part of her probably feels unlovable so she feels the need to push you to your limit to see if you'll stick around.
As much as you like her, it may be best to cut this one loose. She needs time to work through her issues and heal. It's next to impossible to do that while you're in a relationship with someone else.
Breaking up with her could teach her a valuable lesson. She may not treat the next guy like that. She's clearly not respecting you, and when you try to communicate she shuts you down. Believe it or not but that is mental abuse. Get out before it gets worse. You're wasting your time right now.
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Your asking should you become more aggressive with a girl, to spark a different reaction than the current one she's showing you, because you feel it's so your being a sensitive "nice guy". c'mon bruh, NO & NO again. If ever it gets to the point where you feel the need to act unlike yourself or ever resort to aggressive behavior towards anyone, especially a girl... make the right choice to walk away from something that's emotionally damaging you. Don't feed yourself excuses to stay if your at the point where you're even considering an option as such. I do think her personality is a reflection of what she's allows her boyfriend to do, and now she projects that onto others sadly. But again NO my boy. I wouldn't do it. And I'm just like you :)