Most Helpful Guy
Well i never dated anyone before i met her and i was love at first sight for the both of us, well almost. I married her shortly after and its been magical ever since and we are expecting our daughter soon. I think its normal to have little disagreements. We do fight but deep down i know i could never hurt her because it would probably kill me to know i have done that to her. I love her, show respect and its been an incredible journey. I am with her for 5 years now and it still feels like the first day i saw her, butterflies in my tummy. Read myTake: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10257-syra-my-heart-i-give-to-you-till-the-very-end
People often ask how do you know if he/she is the one, i have asked myself so many times and i can't really describe it. When i met her for the first time, there was something about her that made me feel at peace in my heart, its like i needed her to be with me, not in a sexual way at all. Look i guess there is never a 100% fool proof method to know for sure. What i would suggest is talk with him about it and go with your heart and use some logic too. Just know that if it does not work out, its ok, this is life, love is mysterious and behaves in ways we are yet to understand, but don't give up on love. Nothing in life is fixed in stone and i am reminded of a beautiful quote that has helped me
1. Whatever you resist will persist
2. Expectations reduce joy in a relationship (this i have found to work exceptionally well)
Don't expect your boyfriend to be like this or like that, and long as he respects and loves you that is all that really matters in the end. I hope this helps you, and you have an awesome relationship as i have, take care :) :)
Most Helpful Girl
My parents were high school sweethearts. I know my dad was my moms first boyfriend and they've been married for 33 years now. They don't argue very often and they have a ton of fun together. It's definitely possible.