So I've been seeing this guy for a month and half. We went on 5 dates and hung out twice. Things were going well, he would message me a lot and even told me he really enjoyed my company on the 4th date. I do notice he is a quiet/shy type of guy in person so texting was our main mode of communication. From the beginning he wasn't a diligent texter but at least replied with in 15 minutes.
Well, our 5th date was our last date since i had to move back to my university which is 7 hours away. And i did finally sleep with him and it was good with lots of eye contact and it just felt right. Well I've been away for about a week now and he never messaged me. I did message him one time and the conversation was really short. I've sent him a few snapchats but he no longer replies to them. Today i've messaged him letting him know i'm going home soon to pick up some esstail stuff i left and that i wanted to see him. He agreed to hanging out but he didn't seem as eager to it because he replied a whole day later. He was pretty quick to agree to the first 5 dates and hanging out before. So whats up with this guy? Is he now doing the whole "fading away" after sex thing?
Most Helpful Guy
You have moved 7 hours away ! What's not to understand? He has mourned you and is probably looking for someone else. He must not be into long distance relationship. You said it yourself, he's not a good texter. He needs to be in close proximity to someone to feel something. By going away, you killed the relationship in it's infancy...0
Most Helpful Girl
He lost interest0