Most Helpful Girl
"Is there any way we could get together And... Talk? There are a few things I have on my mind which will explain a few things over the last few months."
If she is a friend Indeed, she will also be a 'Friend' that you Need right now, and will swallow her sorrow that she may be feeling right now and Consent to... Hang out.
She is most likely feeling the pain of no gain when you just 'Disappeared' out of sight for 'About 3 months.' She may be thinking that you found someone else and dumped your 'Relationship' and Now... She seems really cold towards me...
Get on the same page here, dear. No one says you have to put the writing on the wall and all of telling her All your heartfelt feelings.
Go slow with your flow, should she meet up with you and explain to her that you had problems that you needed some space with and from now On... You are here to stay in every way.
She just may feel something that could be a surprise to your own eyes. However, with no open lines of convo and pulling the cold duck feet act, Any future Real Relationship will go dead in the water.
Good luck. xx
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah because you abandoned her. Yes its gonna take time and a lot of your energy