Most Helpful Girl
My guess is it will vary from girl to girl. I personally don't have a magic number of dates and just go with the mood.0
Most Helpful Guy
I would say 4 anything after that is in the safe zone, to try0
if you genuinly like the girl may after 4 or 5 but she may try the 90 day rule
Its typically up to the girl's discretion. But really the answer is as long as it takes and depends on the pace of the relationship.
You're already trying.
Turn up the heat when she's open to it, and cool it when she gets anxious. She'll thank you later.
For many it is 5 which should end in safe sex. But I have some friends who could achieve in first date too because sometimes those girls have been dating 4 times and you were the 5th day date and BINGO.