Girl 1: Your personalities are almost the opposite. Have known for years and finally decided to ask out. She is shy, but when she starts to get to know you and be with you more often she starts to come out of her shell. She is your age or a little bit younger then you, by a few months. She has never hasn't been in a real relationship before. She has set boundaries with you. She dress up and does her hair just for you. Likes video games and would rather read a book then go out to parties. Nerdy type, wears glasses.
Girl 2: very much like your personality, likes your music. Have only known for a few weeks. She is very demanding, and asks you questions that are personal. She doesn't dress up, she usually wears sweatpants and a t-shirt when you go out. She would rather lay around and do nothing with you. Does not set boundaries, very open. A year of dating she broke up with you because you went to the army, she did not want you to go.
Who would you choose?
- Girl #1 why?
- Girl #2 why?
Most Helpful Guy
Well neither of them to be honest but if I have to choose I'd go with #2.
Girl one has some great traits but overall it would never work out. If our personalities don't match at all then she shares none of my interests so we'll be a lot more distant.
She's shy so most of our time is going to feel like I'm trying way too hard to get a positive response... so it's already a one sided relationship.
I don't mind the boundaries and I like that she dresses well and bothers to look nice for me and the fact she's not into the party life... but still we'd be at opposite ends every step of the way.
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