Most Helpful Guy
That's a big hell no! If the guy was thinking about marriage I'd tell you to run, run like the wind! There's a world of difference between lusting after a person you don't know particularly well, and establishing that after an extended period of getting to know each other intimately in the routine business of life, you're so convinced that you're right for each other for ever that you propose marriage.
What I would be thinking is I need to crack on and get together with you to start building a relationship - I'd have no preconceived ideas about where that might end up. You have to start building a house with a first brick, and it takes many thousands more bricks before you can move in! One step at a time... don't go loading up a new relationship with 4 years of baggage that really has no value or relevance in the bigger scheme of things.
Most Helpful Girl
how could you be thinking about marriage if theyve never dated?