that said, as much as we seem to get along, we have yet to hang out at all. outside of seeing her at the gym when i do, we have no contact at all. i think its mostly bc we're both very shy reserved people, and i know im often too nervous to risk upsetting the status quo. but still, we've known each other a while now and haven't hung out once? not even a friendly text?
at one point we had plans for a date, but she cancelled on me, saying that its just a bad time for her and she rushed into it, or something like that. being my shy self i backed off. we'd still talk just as friendly as before, but that was it, and its where we are still. i've asked her to movies and such on a few random weekends since, but it was alwasy a polite 'no thanks' or 'i still dont think thats a good idea right now'.
lately i've gotten pretty sick of spinning my wheels as front desk guy, i need to act. we talk, we're very friendly and seem to get along great, yet we dont hang out or talk at all. doesn't seem right. i blew my chance to ask her in person the other night, but dammit i want to take this girl out this weekend. im not a fan of asking a girl out via text, but im a bit too old school for my own good at times. is this an occassion where i can get away with it?