It seems like no one really think of me like girlfriend material. Just like a one time thing or something you can have on the side. What is it about some girls that make them a temporary choice? Because I feel like I am one. It happens over and over again. How are the "gf material" girls like? In looks & personality and so on..
Most Helpful Guy
Have you ever hooked up? If you had, then that's the reason why. You get a reputation and it's very difficult to get over that.
If you've never hooked up then maybe it's because you're pretty and they assume you always have guys crawling for you, so why would you be with just one, right? That's what they may be thinking. Usually pretty girls are seen as hookups instead of relationship material.
Also if you're too wild, like clubbing, parties, have lots of friends... that's something most guys don't want im a future girlfriend.4
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Most Helpful Girl
Wow, it's as if I was the one who asked this question, the exact same shit happens to me, I swear. Guys have wanted to make me their side chick and have asked me to be friends with benefits but never their girlfriend.
For some reason I don't seem like girlfriend material to them and I don't know why which does bother me.
I remember one guy literally saying to my friend, "yeah, your friend is very pretty, but I'd just have some fun with her" and the dude didn't even know me like who the fuck do they think I am? Ugh, I feel you.0