I'm a firm believer of going halfsies because the guys i date and I have no jobs or source of income, so I feel like its only fair to pitch in both of our allowance money, lol.
- The guyVote A
- The girlVote B
- Whoever asked for a dateVote C
- Whoever was asked outVote D
- Half and halfVote E
- Whoever makes more moneyVote F
Most Helpful Guy
I'm a firm believer in splitting it too.
"Whoever asks pays" only applies when it's very short notice or a surprise, because otherwise that's not as fair as it sounds.
If you're going steady then you can mix up who pays if you like. But early on when you have no idea how it's going to turn out, you shouldn't be throwing money at people, except maybe if they are a friend, but even with that it could go either way, guy or girl.
I'd love to see someone vote B. I think I'd be wonderful to have someone just pay for me, why is it that being a guy makes me completely removed from that experience? That sucks.1
Most Helpful Girl
The individual who asks should pay for the first date. I asked my boyfriend out. So I drove to his house, picked him up, drove to dinner, paid for dinner, drove to the homecoming dance, paid for tickets, drove him home, and walked him to his door. I do classy lol6