Next afternoon she txts me with an upbeat tone, asking how my night went... I asked her if she was free for a drink, then we went out later that week.
Took her to a really nice little cocktail bar and the conversation was flowing and she seemed thrilled to be there the date was almost 100% perfect.
the next day I txted her saying thanks for coming out and that I'd love to do it again. and she replied something along the lines of "Thanks so much for taking me out, I had such a nice night!! and absolutley :)"
a week went by and I didn't contact her, just to keep the space, then eventually hit her up for another date.
Took her out for dinner and finished with a few drinks at this other nice place.. i walked her home both times and on the second date we kissed... NOW...
txted her again after that date saying thankyou etc, and that i'd contact her soon to tell her when im free... she said "yeah i had fun! and yeah sounds good :)" and two days after that i txted her saying i hope her weeks going well and we should get a quick coffee tomorrow.
she didn't reply and the next morning she says "well i had a great few dates but i see you as more of a friend! happy to grab coffee sometime next week if you're still keen?"... and i replied saying it's all ok and that we'll leave the coffee for now etc etc.
She seemed so obliging and upbeat the whole time and I thought we had quiet a good thing going! bit disappointing but ah well. just curious like what do girls want in a guy? i made sure I was completely myself, had great fun, and made sure I was being the most gentlemenly I could possibly have been. can any girls give me a pers