p. s : I;m confident in my looks, not cocky, try to be genuine and honest and I don't cling, yet I don't become aloof at all in a dating situation. and hey I guess sometimes when things don't go your way it can be a little easy to think there's something wrong with you, like not being funny enough, not being masculine enough, etc... but i refuse to change myself for anyone... and yet i have no trouble at getting a pretty girl on a date but can never work things up to the relationship stage :) yet i kinda feel like THAT guy who no matter what sorta just ends up in the friend zone... do i initiate conversation too much? too little? hmm i dno... i guess i wanna figure out how to maximise the chances of them falling for me as much as i (secretly) fall for them? secretly = i don't give away too much in the beginning cause i don't want to smother them.
SO! i'll start with:
Rule #1: Be yourself
Rules #2: Have fun
Rule #3: Be honest, genuine and engaging in conversation, make a true effort to get to know her as a person.
VERY UNDERRATED RULE #4: If you take her out to dinner, pour HER water first, little things speak volumes.