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"He's been on vacation for a few months and he's a really crappy communicator. I've talked to him about this a few times and every time he claims he's a bad "texter" or he's been busy."
^if that's so then y don't u call him better? maybe he's a bad texter indeed... but if he avoids yer calls then u should get suspicious.
"and he seems to not even be willing to try for me"
^he's on vacation... so better cut him some slack in this case... it'd be weird if u were communicatin daily when he was on vacation ;)
maybe twice-thrice/week's ok